Concerns regarding INFP closest friend (contrary intercourse)

Concerns regarding INFP closest friend (contrary intercourse)
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This really is a conversation on concerns regarding INFP closest friend (opposite gender) inside the INFP Forum - The Idealists discussion boards, an element of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; we'm an INTJ man. Perhaps you dudes could help me comprehend my feminine INFP closest friend better. I want to first.


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  • Concerns regarding INFP friend that is best (opposite gender). We'm an INTJ man. Perhaps you dudes may help me realize my female INFP friend that is best better.

    Allow me first say her dearly as my friend that I love. Her personality fits David Keirsey's INFP description nearly towards the page. Once I first came across her, 9 years back, I didn't learn about personality kinds but we felt that her head had an excellent heat and deepness, that she could share feelings having an intensity that I experiencedn't experienced before but that her irrationality might make me get crazy. Even with 9 years she is nevertheless a large, wonderful secret for me and unravelling its secrets is going to be a job for the others of my entire life. If I do not get pea nuts before that. BTW before anyone asks why WE would not become a few, we currently was at an LTR once I came across her and I also'm nevertheless within the LTR that is same and satisfied with it. Therefore also ago we are best friends and that's that though we had a severe crush on each other many years.

    Within the 9 years i have known her she's got dropped in deep love with (or has already established a crush that is severe) 8 various dudes. Many of them are not available (including myself), along with the rest she has had relationships that lasted from two months to 1 1/2 years. Virtually every time she fell so in love with someone she said exactly just exactly how this perthereforen is so unique and different from most of the remainder and exactly how she seems as for many years etc if she would already know him. She appeared to be constantly utterly and totally in love and place this business (often IMO instead average dudes. To place it moderately) for a pedestal. Nevertheless after having a relationship is finished (no matter it or the guy) she's always belittling the importance of this relationship to her if she ended. She actually is saying such things as "we did not just just simply take this relationship extremely serious anyhow. " Okay, i realize it is a protection process but we think it is it. Dare I use the expressed term in this forum. "naive" to ALWAYS fall under the exact same trap, to praise a man as then putting him down when he broke up with her a few months later if he was the big love of her life after knowing him for 6 weeks and. Additionally we wonder why she does not appear to feel "ashamed" at all to at first constantly speak about this business just as if these were send straight straight straight down from paradise and simply a weeks/months that are few utilize the "he was not that great anyhow" routine. Is it typical for INFPs?

    What about you guys?

    Would you additionally fall in love therefore easily? Can you additionally feel EACH TIME that this time around oahu is the love that is big of life?

    Do not you're feeling ridiculous as a result of it following the fifth or time that is 6th? Do not you begin to be much more cautious at first of a relationship? Do you really additionally constantly belittle your emotions following the relationship is finished?

    And yet another thing: would you additionally imagine being madly deeply in love with someone as well as the exact same time having an extremely close, instead intimate (but non-sexual) friendship with someone through the opposite gender (or of the identical intercourse if you should be homosexual)? Often it appears to be very confusing to her, this has developed plenty of psychological turbulences over time and then we've had times whenever certainly one of us or both required some distance but that never lasted longer when compared to a or two week.


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